Love vs. Compatibility: Calculating the Perfect Match
What consists of a good relationship? Of course, the people involved
should be in love with each other, but is love enough to keep them
alive? Some say, no. Aside from love, the people involved in a
relationship should also be compatible. Otherwise, they would only end
up brokenhearted. But is there an effective formula used to calculate
what they call the perfect match? While internet love calculators only
provide a mere numerical percentage without a supporting explanation of
how the two people came to be compatible, there are also other love
calculators you can use to find out at what point does love and
compatibility meet in order to produce the perfect love team.
First, consult the celestial calculator.
- Solar zodiac – The solar zodiac, also known as the Roman
zodiac, consists of twelve celestial bodies which represent the
present horoscope uses in telling our fortune. The zodiac signs tell
more than just our personalities, but our compatibility rates with
other people. The findings of the zodiac are in a way accurate, so
you can somehow rely on their calculations when looking for that
person who’s compatible with you.
- Lunar zodiac – The Chinese zodiac meanwhile is also
useful in matching two people. Their birth years play a big role in
determining their compatibility, and this has been used in engaging
children from two families as part of Chinese tradition. When it
comes to becoming practical partners, you may consult this kind of
compatibility calculator.
After checking what the heavens say about the two love birds you
plan to match into a relationship, then it’s time to measure their
capability to love, this time as individuals:
- Romance test – This test calculates the person’s
capability of being romantic, expressive of his or her emotions of
their partners. In love, it is important that you can express how
you feel. It doesn’t matter if you use material gifts or the
fanciest songs to show your love, as long as you channel to your
partner effectively. If both of them pass the test, then they have a
good chance for a relationship.
- Personality test – This test meanwhile examines the
individual’s character both as a person and as a lover. Certain
situations are taken into account and the person is given choices,
which consist of the possible actions he/she would do given the said
scenario. This test then determines if the person can keep up with
both the good and the bad times of a relationship based on the
chosen answers.
- Individual compatibility test – What are the couple’s
likes and dislikes? How do they deal with situations in which things
don’t go their way? Will they agree to stick together during the
rough times? What about in terms of giving way? Do they have enough
tolerance to keep up with each other’s traits? Like in the
personality test, compatibility tests also consist of hypothetical
situations in which they are given choices to choose from, and their
answers will determine whether they are compatible or not.
- Erotica test – How good are they in bed? How do they
kiss? How do they wake up each other’s senses? What for them is the
act of sex? These questions deal with how they can satisfy each
other’s physical, emotional and sensual needs, combined with their
attitude towards doing the deed. Sex tastes best when showered with
love and romance, not to mention the compatibility of both
individuals, as everything will fuse into one once they unite in
bed.
So you may ask… what exactly is the formula for a perfect match?
Actually, there is no exact formula for a perfect match, simply
because the perfection does not pre-exist; rather, it is made. Two
people can live together and love each other in a platonic kind of way,
yet they make the relationship work thanks to their compatibility.
Meanwhile, two people who are crazy in love may not share anything in
common, but could still survive as a couple. And for them, they are the
perfect match, as they are the ones who made their relationship perfect,
based on their own standards. |
